My man of 8 yrs ran off?

coz i was jealous and insecure.we couldn't even go out as i was accusing him of ogling women.we sat in every night he got bored.he was also backed u by friends and family.It has been a month now,he has started to return my calls,says he will meet but never does.I find if i leave him he is fine,but when i call him all the time he is cranky and angry...i know i have issues i Must deal with...but what is my mans problem?? will i get him back??